We can't please everybody

I want to rant on this. Very much. If you are going to judge me base on this, well okay sure. . . Just a note, I am definitely not perfect. Who is anyway? This rant will be based on MY fucking opinion and experience, we are all different so yea sorry if it's too offensive.

Fame & Attention
-Who doesn't want to be popular and make more friends? Fame feeds and heals the inner lonely you(for me). The sad side of you where it wasn't understood and got stabbed. Yes, usually it would be stabbed by someone close to you, e.g: family or friends. We all want to be appreciated, cherished and well-known. With fame, you'd get a status from society depending on how you obtained it. Fame is like a drug, gives a quick boost of confidence and arrogance.. Then the side effect kicks in-- getting judged and hated.

Judged & Hated
-So, the cycle begins. You are being judged and hated. Now make your choice.

1)Apologise for your rudeness
*Your pride will be involved.
*There will be 2 major groups of people judging you. The first group is where you will be seen as a weakling. Don't like that don't you?
*The second group will be that you will be seen as someone mature. But you can't read people's mind and not everyone will do justice for you so sometimes we fight for ourselves despite we know what's wiser.

2)Ignore
*There will also be major groups of people. The first group is where you will be seen as someone 'arrogant and boring', then you might start to lose some fame.
*The second group is the same the first factor's second group, where you will be seen as someone mature. 'The strong does not quarrel with the weak' will be your excuse to not fight back, then again you will be fucking judged. Why? Because you called your haters 'weak'. h a h a, man, what a paradox.

3)Stand your ground
*You chose to fight back. Now you have 2 choices.
*The first choice is to scold your hater(s) full of vulgars. Might produce the 'tough' image but everyone's watching and judging. Either you will be seen as a tough person or just an immature crude kid, arguing unreasonably with no strong points(even if you might have).
*The second choice is to refute reasonably and honestly and calmly. I have to say this: HATERS HATE YOUR HONEST GUTS. They don't give a fuck of what you are saying, it only makes them even mad. Only the witnesses will respect you.

What's next?
-Oh, be careful dear! Gossip, gossip, gossip. Stab, stab, stab. Bleed, bleed, bleed. Watch your back people! You never know who secretly hates you and wants to destroy you.
Fact: Research have shown that we lose and replace half of our friends every 7 years.

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"Don't be dismayed at good-byes. A farewell is necessary before you can meet again. And meeting again, after moments or lifetimes, is certain for those who are friends."

Yep, for those who have suffered in lost and broken friendships, lets give each other a virtual hug *hugs tightly* xx *plays a7x's second heartbeat*

The reason why I love a7x's second heartbeat so fucking much is because it perfectly describes how I am feeling.... Well of cause, I don't only love this song from them!

Might rant about my favourite bands again/soon! HEHE can't wait for a7x concert on the 28th april at Singapore! YESSSHHHHHHHHHSHFHSDJGFSJHLFJSLEGLEGEGEG!!!! See you guys there if you're coming!!!!!

So now we all know we can't please everybody except stop hating one another(which is practically impossible to achieve, even i have some people i hate). Also, as time passes by, you start to realise that what we all need isn't fame, it breeds hatred. What we all need are just a handful of honest and loyal friends. That's more than enough.